VIRGINITY AND VIRTUE

                                 
If you're a virgin in the building say yay!...I mean, if you're a virgin and you are not married...one hand...two...yea, just two?...OK, so what happened to our sense of pride people? What happened to sex after marriage?...you developed?...what about God?...It's very sad how being dis-virgined is the new virginity, in fact, there are loads of men who wouldn't marry virgins and loads of virgins who are too ashamed to claim that they still are. Something that was a thing of great pride, not only to us Nigerians, but to the so called Americans we seem to love to imitate blindly has now become a thing of shame. Fornication and adultery, two things abhorred by GOD, and not just among Muslims, but Christians also...doesn't this tell us, that this is truly somehow wrong?!
    Men strut about saying, it's in their nature to be polygamous and there's nothing that can be done about it..."it's just how we are made."...seriously, drop those dead lines already, don't you have no sense of control?...whats your brain for? We are not animals, you see a woman, little john reacts and you move like you have been possessed, forgetting you have a wife and complaining that she nags a lot when you get back late, somehow, you always find a way to blame her, her cooking, she's getting fat, she's too lazy, she's too demanding, she has no child, she has no MALE child?...always some sick reason, an excuse to make yourself feel better...Well, your no different.      Fidelity is as important among men as it is among women!

     Now back to virginity, the whole point of my little speech is being a Virgin is something to be very proud of, both religiously and morally and not something you should be ashamed of, so please, virgins, hold your heads up high because you are virtuous women, the very last of your kind too. Do not let someone else who has already lost it, who has no hope of ever getting it back, make you feel bad about yourself, or tell you that it's not so special any more, or that men aren't into virgins because, the responsible ones sure are, nothing is as special or as beautiful  as doing "it" with the one you love, your legally approved husband on that night, that special honey moon night...experiencing and learning about each other on your own, nothing is wrong with learning to make love...and everything is wrong with random sex with not so long lasting boyfriends! Not to forget the respect, pride and joy that comes with it
And yea, what our mamas told us is very true "if he truly loves you, he WILL wait", and not the other way round. VIRGINITY IS NOT LACK OF OPPORTUNITY, it's realizing that you have a treasure that you should only give to that person  who will appreciate it. Unlike people like to say, you would always regret it after it's gone, always, I am no goody shoes!...I know this, it's only mere jealousy that will make your friends tell you otherwise. 
The only advantage a non virgin has is the pleasure that comes from sex, something you could sure wait for, AND SOMETHING THAT LASTS NO MORE THAN 30 MINUTES, with consequences that are sure not worth it...you don't have to be a prostitute, to get AIDS, to get pregnant..and consequently go through an abortion...now think this, is an innocent childs life worth some minutes of canal pleasure? A brief rump could bring dire conseqences.
I did also like to correct the myth that says that virgins are stuck up in bed and consequentlly need to be taught about sex through experiences with more than one man, so NOT true, this does not depend on her status, but her personality, body type and if the man with her knows what to do, a stuck up woman is stuck up, no matter how experienced she is, a good man will be patient with you, he will teach you about pleasure!
 I hope my little speech has helped the virgins out there, you are not an outcast, be proud of yourself because you have decided not to distribute your treasures, when the right time comes, you will do IT and eventually get tired of IT...so why hurry?...do not join the ignorant crowd, keep yourself and thank yourself later.
This speech may be a lil jumbled and not in the best order, but I hope you get the point, and I also really hope that I have encouraged good ol'virgins out there!.........#NO RING #NO SEX! Say a big NO to "If you love me, you will let me do it...like Beyonce said >If you like it on your shoulder, put a ring on it!"